Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, 10 July 2017


Whenever someone first hears of the Kashmir. Srinagar comes to our minds and this is natural because Kashmir is famous for its capital. We all may have heard of the quote that once Jahangir, the Mughal emperor said that if there is heaven anywhere in the world its in Kashmir. and true he was according to me. I have been to a handful of places out of my hometown and most of them are in the mountains and i think that this is so that i am so fond of mountains. They are something that signifies many things in our daily lives and incorporate those in our ideas reflected by our religions. One of them being the enormity of them. We as humans are mere creatures compared to mountains. Whenever we want to say something motivational, referring to the problem, we usually say that this mountain can be conquered. In 2014 i wanted to visit Kashmir because of the landscapes it offers and i had bought a new camera and i was very anxious to try it out. landscapes are my first preference. That goes back to the days when i actually bought a personal computer. The wallpapers that windows showed were actually landscapes and i wanted my desktop to look as beautiful as it can be so i would look for beautiful landscapes and this made my interest in the landscapes. Now most of the landscapes as we see are made in the mountains. Even when i was in junior school, the only landscape that we drew looked something like this.

It was surreal to see and to think of such a place . Quite, away from all the disturbances of the city life. I still think of this picture at nights and dream of the silence that it offers. the chirping of the birds and the soft and warm rays of the sun awaking the landscape from the deadly cold of the night. Everything seems to come to life. Once you enter the mountains, the vibes become very different, its like you become free. You can be anything you want to be, behave anyhow you like away from the eyes of the society.

So go to the mountains and feel yourself.

Much more coming related to my stories in the mountains. Stay tuned.

Friday, 8 January 2016

Depression - how to kill it

As the world move towards progress in the technological areas, humans beings follow the pursuit.Hence the work and responsibilities that keeps our system going smooth.Be it bringing vegetables or being on time in the office, every person in the world is tied to some kind of force that keeps their mind at a stable state.Nevertheless there are opposite forces that tries to keep us off track. (Every action has an equal and opposite reaction) ."NEWTON'S THIRD LAW" .Once off the track it gives hard times and if not controlled keeps on increasing with every passing second.

There are many reasons or I shall say infinite reasons for depression.It may be related to your financial status, your relationship status or thinking too hard about questions that can't be explained by science like the almighty and the purpose of our existence(This is the one that took on me) or it may be something else that show the symptoms of depression. Symptoms are very usual- insomnia, asocial behaviour, feeling afraid and so on.

First thing that you need to know is that you are not alone with this problem some 30% of the entire population is affected by this. I am talking about 2 billion people. This include thousands of wealthy celebrities that we think are unknown to depression. Life is not easy for any of us, We all have some problems. The ones who faces life with their heads up are the real warriors.

                                      We are warriors , not survivors 

concentrating on the beautiful times of our lives is the  the best cure available. Go to your facebook profile and check out those memories that you lived happily with your friends and family and embrace them or think and write about the happy times of your life. Thank God for the life that is given to you. There are still millions that sleep without food.

Thursday, 5 September 2013

Winnig Life

I will be successful that’s the thing that i always think when i start a work and the possibilities are 100% . I never actually know what is going to happen. But I am sure I will be successful if I work hard. Take the opportunities and put your best efforts. Always remember that the secret to success is to put our mind, heart and resources together in each single task that we do daily. Get out of your comfort zone to test your abilities. These small things will grow out to being out our lifestyle. The lifestyle that once we will tell stories about to our children. Opportunities knock everyone’s door but if it does not knock your, built a new one of your own.

Do not lose in life. Good deeds always make us a better person. The harder we try the most chances are of winning. Never say never because if someone else can do, why can’t you. Life gives us too many difficulties. That’s the reason we call it life. If we come out as a warrior and face the life, I am sure the victory will be ours. At last we will be really happy about our victory over life. Remember, never ever lose hope. I don’t know whether you know this or not but let me tell you that hope is the biggest gift that god has given us to fight back. He gave us difficulties but side by side gave us the power to fight it.

Let me ask you a question. If you were sure that you cannot lose, what would you do? Got it!! Yes that’s the thing that you should be doing. It’s never too late to start. Spread you wings and conquer the sky. I think you will be having a question. Oh! Yes I know how you can find your passion. As a teenager I also have many dreams but I am not afraid to follow them. I just go with the flow of life. Actually I write this blog because I like writing and I am sure that I will be a successful blogger one day because I believe I can. Get on a track and don’t ever leave the track because of the time it takes to reach the destiny. At least if you follow your heart, you will be satisfied with your life when you will be in your 70's and will be sitting in a light sun with a cup of coffee in your hand at you home.

This is your life make it large. The choice is yours!!

Monday, 2 September 2013

The Sunday Class

Yesterday was Sunday and as usual I went on to attend my one of the most important classes on better living. The topic was the phases of life a spiritual man goes through in his life. As the topic is broad, so for this class we discussed only a portion of it. The lessons are taken from the holy book of Sikhs, “Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji”.

Here was one point in the discussion which I liked the most.  That was, we all went to school, right? In schools there are many facilities available to students. There are good classrooms, water for drinking, we take lunch over there and do many more things. But, what is the actual reason for which we go to school?

The answer is simple. We go to school for learning. We don’t go there for sitting in classrooms or drinking water or for lunch. Same is with our earth. The almighty has provided us with a beautiful environment for our needs. They are for our uses only. No one is going to take it away with them when they leave the world. We are not here to take advantage of nature. We are born for some reason. There is a purpose of our life. The world is set in an auto-cycle. People wake up early in the morning, get ready for their work in hurry and go to their respective works. Their whole day is spent like this in hurry doing many things that they think are the most important in their life. They come home tired and sleep. They don’t get the chance to think that what is the actual reason, we are here. Many are born who are bought in the auto-cycle and many die leaving. No one actually thinks about the purpose of life leaving some.

This is the only the first stage when a man thinks about the purpose of life and step  towards spirituality. The world is like a guesthouse for us. We come here one day and leaves on the other. So it’s our kind duty to keep the house clean and clear. The authority, that is the almighty, the owner of the guesthouse is doing his duty but keeping it clean as far as possible but the guests are not. It does not look good. So whenever you do something harmful to the nature, think that you are a guest here and if a guest does something bad in the guesthouse, he is not allowed to enter again. It’s our duty to keep it clean.

At last we all have to go. Who so ever came here, surely went back.

Sunday, 25 August 2013


I have been making mistakes since my childhood and I have made so big and big mistakes that I think no one else have made it. But I didn’t stop working. My mistakes taught me to be wiser day by day. Now when I am a bit wiser than earlier, I know what is good and bad for me but my temptations drag me towards them.

I used to think too much about my life but day by day as the time changed, I actually understood the way the life is to be lived. We all have a different lifestyles and I am not saying that any lifestyle is bad but what we actually do reflect our life. That is our everyday actions reflect our life. The actions don’t just tell other about us but also tell ourselves about us.

I have heard many people saying that don’t stop until you find your passion. But I don’t think that all of them know how to find it. The point is to stop finding it. Just do your everyday tasks nicely, your passion will automatically come to you. Whenever we try to find our passion by ourselves, we ignore many things saying that it’s not our passion and the thing that ultimately happens is that we really sit without actually trying the things out.

So what I want to say is we should take care of small things, bigger ones will themselves fall in line. Building are also made with bricks and oceans with drops. Remember, people die but legends live.The things you do today will reflect your life tomorrow. Our today’s actions will become the mirrors of our life that will reflect the outcome of our life tomorrow. Nobody wants a dull future. We all want a good and bright future. Do not do anything that we will have to regret tomorrow. 

Be a legend that people should remember us.

Monday, 19 August 2013


                  "Laughing is the cheapest medicine"

This is what my grandfather told me and i think he was right . He passed away last year after completing his perfect 100 years of life.

Laughing makes us happy .In fact we laugh when we are happy. This i think is the simplest reason for why we should laugh whenever we can.

Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain, and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hopes, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused, and alert.

A professional says,
                               “Your sense of humor is one of the most powerful tools you have to make certain that your daily mood and emotional state support good health.”

   Laughter makes you feel good. And the good feeling that you get when you laugh remains with you even after the laughter subsides. Humor helps you keep a positive, optimistic outlook through difficult situations, disappointments, and loss.
More than just a respite from sadness and pain, laughter gives you the courage and strength to find new sources of meaning and hope. Even in the most difficult of times, a laugh–or even simply a smile–can go a long way toward making you feel better. And laughter really is contagious—just hearing laughter primes your brain and readies you to smile and join in the fun.So this is why laughing helps us to stay happy emotionally.
Laughing effects our social life too as humor and playful communication strengthen our relationships by triggering positive feelings and fostering emotional connection. When we laugh with one another, a positive bond is created. This bond acts as a strong buffer against stress, disagreements, and disappointment.
So i think the person who is intelligent always laugh whenever he/she gets the chance. And laughing is very easy to understand. Everyone of us  can understand even if we are fools. 
So lets lets laugh and be intelligent.

Saturday, 17 August 2013

Music- Voice of God

We all love music. Without music, i think there would not be something so called a "beautiful" life.

We all love a different types of music and i don't think there will be any living person who doesn't have a part of his life dedicated to music. we start whispering when we hear our favorite song.  For some it may be a rock n roll and for some it would be soft music.

Scientifically, Music is an art form whose medium is sound and silence with pitch, rhythm, dynamics and sonic qualities of timbre and texture as its common elements.

Since we can have a different definitions of music from different cultures around the world but there is certainly no certain language of music. It existed long before any language was discovered.It connects people in the world. Helping people to understand each other by the type of music we like.The type of music we like, portrays our inner image. It motivates us .It inspires us.

For me its a part of my life.Actually, i am very moody type of person. So whenever i have to make my mood for something, i leave this job on music.While i am writing this post, my ears are covered with headphones with a melodious song playing in my ears taking me with its flow.

Music can be created from anywhere, be it a football stadium with thousand of vuvuzelas making noise or a quite place like a morning in a countryside village with birds whispering their melodious songs.

Being a form of art , its obvious that it can be used in expressing your feelings. I must say, it is the strongest form of art influencing every person on earth. Some people a fond of painting, some are not but i don't find a person who don't like music.

Be it a theist or atheist , music is involved in everyone's life.Music can be seen in any religion in the world .It is the way to reach god. Temples are usually made with a dome. Do you know why? Well !! its because when we recipe a prayer, it comes back with a echo .Mixing the frequencies of our voice and echo provides a rhythm .

At last i would say Music is a God's gift to us which reflects his love for its children.
May this help us to be near him...!!!